The Builder
A poem of gratitude for the hands that helped us stand, then let us walk on our own.
Not every hand that lays the ground
Will stay to see the roof come round.
Some come with plans, some come with clay,
Some linger just to show the way—
Then lay their tools upon the stone
And leave you standing on your own.
You never built a cage for me,
A gilded cell where I can't be—
You built a floor that knows my tread,
A door that opens toward my head.
You showed me where the load beams are,
Then stepped aside—and stayed a star.
I do not turn to seek your face—
You are the reason I have grace
To drive each nail and lift each beam,
To trust the shape of my own dream.
Your hammer rests now in my chest—
Not as a ghost, but as a rest.
And if the road should never bend
To bring you back to where I mend—
Know this: the roof above my head,
The path I walk, the words I've said,
Are not your shadow, but your seed—
I grew this tree from what you freed.
You go your way, and I'll go mine—
Two roads that once aligned in time.
But when I stand and when I rise,
I'll thank you with no tears, no sighs—
You are the ground I walk upon,
The part of me that's already gone,
And yet—the part that lingers long—
A builder's love, a silent song.
Dedication
To every builder who laid a stone and stepped away —
you are not named here,
not claimed,
not held.
You are simply carried,
in the way a floor carries every step that follows.
I live in what you built.
That is enough.
That is everything.
If this poem brought someone to mind, carry the gratitude forward in your own way.
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